I have noticed some amazing shifts in my life over the past month, so much so, that I wanted to share HOW I made them happen, because it would be selfish of me to keep this magic to myself, right? 😉
So what has been happening you ask? Simply put, I have been attracting more then EVER, exactly what I need and want in my life. The people I have surrounding me, in my business, health, you name it! It has been mind blowing to say the least.
Abundance is not ‘luck’, and it isn’t just reserved for ‘some’ people. It is your absolute birth right to be and feel abundance in your life, but we sabotage our own happiness and success because of our habits, actions, our thoughts and beliefs.
The truth is, your life is a reflection of you. You CAN have abundance in all areas of your life, but it starts with you. So here are my 4 insights and take aways for you to start implementing in to your own life so you can become a magnet for the things you desire. I have meditated on this religiously.
1. Stay true to YOU: When you stay true to yourself, your values and your centre, you are standing strong in your power. Authenticity is magnetic. The universe knows when you aren’t being true to you and when you are being inauthentic, so it won’t deliver. In fact, it will rebel and give you exactly what you don’t want. Living with integrity is a must if you want abundance in your life. If something doesn’t feel right to you, don’t do it. Have you ever done something that didn’t feel right to you and didn’t align with your values? I have, plenty of times, and it is a yucky, icky feeling. That is why now, I only ever do, (or don’t do) something if it is true to me.
2. BELIEVE and know you are worthy – As I mentioned earlier, abundance isn’t ‘luck’ and isn’t just reserved for some people. People weren’t put on this earth with more talent, more money, more success, more happiness, better looks, better relationships. No no darling! What you have, (or don’t have), is a direct reflection of how worthy you feel, and the belief you CAN have it. Every day, even if it is for 15 minutes in a meditation, you need to visualise, and spit out to the universe EXACTLY how you would like your life, love and health to look. Feel what it feels like to have those things. Really feel the feelings, not the thoughts.
You need to know that you are so worthy of what ever your heart desires. Believe in your soul, you are just as deserving of success, love and happiness as the people you admire and look up to.
Some of the ways you can do this, is by repeating affirmations to yourself on a daily basis such as:
‘I am so thankful for my successful business’
‘At every turn, opportunity appears before me’
‘Money flows effortlessly and easily to me’
‘Wealth is pouring in to my life’
‘My life can expand to be as big as I want it to be’
Even if you don’t have the financial freedom you want, you need to believe you already have it before it comes to you. Is money going to grow on a tree in your back yard? Of course not. You have to show up, and play your part by doing the work. But instead of coming from a place of fear, turn it to love and the belief you are financially abundant. The same goes for everything else in your life. Meditation is also another one of my magic tools I practice daily, sometimes twice a day!
3. Change your view – When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. When you see the world and your life as an abundant play ground, your intentions and dreams become genuine possibilities. If you are living in fear, or with a scarce mindset, that is what you are going to attract.
What is even more powerful then your thoughts, are the words you spit out. Words are SO potent. You need to remove words like, ‘I can’t’, ‘I’m not’ , ‘I shouldn’t’, I’ll never’ These words are no longer in my vocabulary! And if they sometimes slip out, my partner will pull me up with a gentle slap on the wrist reminder. And I do the same for him. What ever you speak, will become your truth, so change the way you speak, and change your view on the world. It is so easy to join the ‘life is so hard’ party with everyone else. It has just become everyones default mode. Instead of looking at it as a struggle, look at it as a limitless pitt of opportunity with everything you need and want.
Even your struggles and mistakes. Look at them as a blessing in disguise, because that is exactly what they are. They are an opportunity for you to GROW and make change. There is a ‘nugget of wisdom’ for you to take from each one.
4. Show gratitude – I cannot express enough, how important showing gratitude is. It is probably the single most important action you need to take out of them all. Showing gratitude for what you already have, is like giving the universe a great big kiss! When you express gratitude, the universe will just give you more and more and more of it!
Practice gratitude every day, even if it is sharing three things you are grateful for with your partner or friends. That is exactly what I do, every day. This practice has helped me attract more of what I love. You cannot expect more, or expect to be happy with more, if you aren’t happy with what you already have.
Your life is yours to create gorgeous. It is time to let go of those limiting beliefs and mean girl thoughts you carry around with you every day, robbing you of what you truly deserve. Abundance is around you every where.
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Now I want to hear from you! I would love for you to share with me and all of the other amazing women that visit this space every day, how do you attract abundance in to your life? Or do you struggle with your mean girl chatter so often, you are constantly battle to see life from an abundant mindset?