Do you wake up every morning BURSTING out of your skin to start the day? If the answer is NO, then my next question to you is, why the heck not!? Do you think one day things will just change? That one day you will wake up and your life will be different? You will be doing what you love, with the people you love, living your DREAM life?
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you did something, and you don’t even know why you did it, but it just felt right? Whether it was the beginning of a new relationship or friendship, a plane ticket to Thailand, a new job, a meal you ordered at a restaurant, an online course you decided to register for, what ever it was, there was no explanation as to WHY you did it, it just felt like the right thing to do. Like you had an internal pull telling you to act upon it…
As always, my intention is to share so openly and authentically with you sister, with the hope that it will inspire YOU to live your best life EVER. So in saying that, let me take you back to about 6 months ago. I was doing pretty much everything I do now, grateful and absolutely in love with my life, to have the ability to do what I do every single day.
I get it. I SO get it. The thought of opening ourselves up whole heartedly to something we don’t know the answer to is freakin scary! Why? because we don’t know whether the outcome is going to be good or bad. This is why, becoming vulnerable can be such a hard thing to do.
You have to be willing to give it all up.
Each day, you have to give up, how you think your day is supposed to look, how you think your supposed to act, how you think you have to feel, eat, say and what you think you should do. Why? Because all of the things we THINK we have to do, are always what we believe according to society.
From the day we are born, we are pure, free and present. Why? Because we haven’t experienced life. We haven’t gone through anything to lead us to think a certain way, be a certain way, feel fear, feel regret, feel guilt or unhappiness. We don’t attach meaning to anything because we don’t even know what the word meaning is.
Is it time for you to ‘get out of your own way’ ?
I hear you…
I was you for so long. But this self sabotage needs to stop.
For so many years, I sabotaged everything in my life. My health, my relationships, my friendships, my happiness, you name it girlfriend. Here is the thing..
It’s that famous, default saying and way of thinking so many of us have. We say we want to do something, and then it always follows with ‘Yea but, I just don’t know when to start’ We are ALWAYS just waiting for the perfect moment to start.
Lately, one thing that has become so evident to me, more so then ever before, is how many women I see waiting for that big tick of approval. That permission slip that say’s ‘You can now pursue your dream life’ My girl, I am here to tell you that it needs to stop!