Do you wake up every morning BURSTING out of your skin to start the day? If the answer is NO, then my next question to you is, why the heck not!? Do you think one day things will just change? That one day you will wake up and your life will be different? You will be doing what you love, with the people you love, living your DREAM life?
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you did something, and you don’t even know why you did it, but it just felt right? Whether it was the beginning of a new relationship or friendship, a plane ticket to Thailand, a new job, a meal you ordered at a restaurant, an online course you decided to register for, what ever it was, there was no explanation as to WHY you did it, it just felt like the right thing to do. Like you had an internal pull telling you to act upon it…
Let me ask you this. Where is your attention right now? Are you focused on reading this, or is your mind wondering and thinking about all of the things you need to do today, what you are having for breakfast, when are you going to walk the dog today etc, etc?
At the end of every year, I love to reflect on what my biggest lessons and takeaways have been. Doing this is a really good way to remind yourself of the growth you have made. We never really take the time to do this during the year and I feel it is such an important thing to do if you truly want to unleash the best possible version of yourself.
You have to be willing to give it all up.
Each day, you have to give up, how you think your day is supposed to look, how you think your supposed to act, how you think you have to feel, eat, say and what you think you should do. Why? Because all of the things we THINK we have to do, are always what we believe according to society.
From the day we are born, we are pure, free and present. Why? Because we haven’t experienced life. We haven’t gone through anything to lead us to think a certain way, be a certain way, feel fear, feel regret, feel guilt or unhappiness. We don’t attach meaning to anything because we don’t even know what the word meaning is.
Is it time for you to ‘get out of your own way’ ?
I hear you…
I was you for so long. But this self sabotage needs to stop.
For so many years, I sabotaged everything in my life. My health, my relationships, my friendships, my happiness, you name it girlfriend. Here is the thing..
It’s that famous, default saying and way of thinking so many of us have. We say we want to do something, and then it always follows with ‘Yea but, I just don’t know when to start’ We are ALWAYS just waiting for the perfect moment to start.
You find a nice guy, you go out on a few dates, things seem to be going well, then BAM! He is no longer interested…You find a nice guy, you go out on a few dates, things seem to be going well, then BAM! He is no longer interested..and this pattern just goes round and round and round. Sound familiar?
After being on my own healing journey for a few years now, and then turning my experience and knowledge in to my passion, which is mentoring incredible women all around the world, one thing has become SO clear to me. A realisation I made only recently..
