Do you wake up every morning BURSTING out of your skin to start the day? If the answer is NO, then my next question to you is, why the heck not!? Do you think one day things will just change? That one day you will wake up and your life will be different? You will be doing what you love, with the people you love, living your DREAM life?
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you did something, and you don’t even know why you did it, but it just felt right? Whether it was the beginning of a new relationship or friendship, a plane ticket to Thailand, a new job, a meal you ordered at a restaurant, an online course you decided to register for, what ever it was, there was no explanation as to WHY you did it, it just felt like the right thing to do. Like you had an internal pull telling you to act upon it…
As always, my intention is to share so openly and authentically with you sister, with the hope that it will inspire YOU to live your best life EVER. So in saying that, let me take you back to about 6 months ago. I was doing pretty much everything I do now, grateful and absolutely in love with my life, to have the ability to do what I do every single day.
At the end of every year, I love to reflect on what my biggest lessons and takeaways have been. Doing this is a really good way to remind yourself of the growth you have made. We never really take the time to do this during the year and I feel it is such an important thing to do if you truly want to unleash the best possible version of yourself.
I get it. I SO get it. The thought of opening ourselves up whole heartedly to something we don’t know the answer to is freakin scary! Why? because we don’t know whether the outcome is going to be good or bad. This is why, becoming vulnerable can be such a hard thing to do.
You have to be willing to give it all up.
Each day, you have to give up, how you think your day is supposed to look, how you think your supposed to act, how you think you have to feel, eat, say and what you think you should do. Why? Because all of the things we THINK we have to do, are always what we believe according to society.
You find a nice guy, you go out on a few dates, things seem to be going well, then BAM! He is no longer interested…You find a nice guy, you go out on a few dates, things seem to be going well, then BAM! He is no longer interested..and this pattern just goes round and round and round. Sound familiar?
After being on my own healing journey for a few years now, and then turning my experience and knowledge in to my passion, which is mentoring incredible women all around the world, one thing has become SO clear to me. A realisation I made only recently..