How many times have you gone through life saying to yourself, ‘I really want this, (job, partner, money, health, holiday, car, house, dress) but I just don’t know how to make it happen!’ or ‘I don’t know where to start’ , then a week, month, sometimes years have gone by and you are still saying to yourself, gee it would be good to have that job, partner, money, health, holiday, car, house, dress! Sound familiar?
For years, I went round and round in circles, like a dog chasing it’s tail, stuck in this cycle myself. I would fall in to that victim mentality and start saying, why is this not happening for me? Why cant I achieve that, why cant I get this? Until, something clicked when I started on my own healing journey a few years back…my life was up to me. No one else. It was my responsibility, and I was the only one that could ‘make it happen’…
Have you ever heard the saying by the great Albert Einstein
Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results
Well, there couldn’t be truer words spoken.
Having worked with a lot of people now, I see this same pattern playing out over and over again. People doing the same thing day in day out, and expecting a different outcome. This definitely wont help you achieve anything new in your life.
So what three steps do you need to actually ‘make it happen’?
Intention – Firstly, you need to set the intention. This makes complete sense right? If you don’t set an intention around what you want, it isn’t real. It is just what I like to call ‘brain fluff’ It is neither here nor there. When you don’t have an intention, how are you meant to know what you actually want to make happen? So first things first. Set the intention that you are going to do something, and more importantly, you WANT to do something.
Clarity – Secondly, you need CLARITY! This is so so important, and a very crucial step. Once you have set the intention, you then need to be very crystal clear on WHAT exactly you would like to make happen. Why is this so important? Well without clarity, you will lack drive, motivation, focus and even which steps you need to take, to make it happen. Having clarity is a must and without it, you will feel somewhat lost.
To do this, you can whip out your journal, and start writing down your vision, so writing down what it is you want to happen and be specific about it. The more specific you can be, the clearer it will become to you. If your goal is to generic, you will still feel like you don’t have clarity. Crystallise it so it FEELS true to you. Once you have clarity, it is then time for the final step.
Action! – So you have set the intention to make something happen, you have become CRYSTAL CLEAR on exactly what it is you want to create, now it is time to take action. This is a no brainer really. We cant make anything happen if we don’t physically and mentally take action. Taking action becomes so much easier when we know what we have to do, right? This is why having clarity is so important, because it then becomes easier to start implementing the steps you need to take.
To take action, sometimes we need help, and that is totally ok! You may need to invest in a book, a coach, a course, something that is going to assist you to help create that magic you are after.
So take the time to journal around the steps you need to take, who you are going to contact, any money you might need to invest etc, then like Nike says, ‘JUST DO IT!’
So often when I talk to people about something they want to make happen for themselves, most of the time, they just need to start! Movement creates momentum. So pack in your mean girl and any limiting beliefs you may have, and just get moving gorgeous! 😉
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Now I want to hear from you! I would love for you to share with me and all of the other amazing women that visit this space every day, how do you ‘make it happen’ in your own life? Are you a go-getter and know exactly what it takes, or do you struggle to even start because of uncertainty and no direction? Share your insights and help each other!
Let me know below beautiful.
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